I was having a convo with a blog buddy where she mentioned having the wrong people in her walk of life at all times. Due to constraints in time I was unable to express my stance on this issue, so what better than my own blog that can help me articulate what I feel on her viewpoint.
Indeed it isnt only her alone but like her many of us have faced this situation most of the times when the closest individual in our life, after a certain episode turns out to be a complete stranger. Thats when emotions like betrayal, faithlessness, insecurity, hatred etc engulf us and make it impossible to rise again.
People play different roles in your life and each being gives you a jist on the experience of life- either something that you can learn from or something that you can follow. But somewhere deep down WE have forgotten OUR role in OUR OWN life. Certain individuals step into our lives only because we want them to.
I've had many people walk in and out of my life and as time flew by I realised that none of them were capable enough or rather deserving enough to be a part of my life except the ones who are close and dear to me ( and I have a very few of them who Im proud to associate as very close to me.
It takes few days or maybe many years to judge a person.
Recently a very close friend of mine, Ram, went through a major break up after 3 years of a Serious and Commited relationshipbut alas it took him 3 long years to comprehend the fact that his partner was a joke and that he ruined these precious years in life. And while trying to set things right in his relation he lost himself in the midst of nothing but fake love and along with that lost out on the essence of life.
Every person teaches you something and so did he learn quite a lot from his gravest mistake.
The reason behind quoting this incident above is just to prove that everyone has been through the phase of having "undesirable people" in their lives.
But it is contingent on you whether you want to fall and rise and face the new world again with a bright new start. Past is history and history repeats itself but only when you want it to. A person in your life can be a stepping stone to success or a complete barrier that you are unaware of. A barrier means riddance and riddance means new beginning.
Do not cling on to the barrier because at the spur of the moment the barrier may feel an important part in your life and a sense of incompleteness deluges you but once you let go a sense of satisfaction accompanies you throughout your life.
Im sure Ram would feel a lot better in the near future after having let go off his mistake (NAFISA :S:S) and a few years down the lane will laugh over this incident and would thank all possible people help him get out of this miserable phase....
As far as my blog buddy is concerned "Fall & Rise" is the motto you should follow.
Not everyone is amateurish it just depends on who you want to choose appropriate to complete your walk of life....
Never lose hope...I learnt it from all the experiences I had in my life..:)
adios
